When life gives you lemons

You just take it to Seattle..

No. I am not making that up. The MIL is in Seattle now, spending time with her new Daughter in law, and of course her son.

Unfortunately, neither of them blog and the unique MIL-DIL bonding relationship which is something as primordial as a man woman relationship, will not be chronicled! We are guessing that many SUN TV episodes worth of material may have been created by now. As usual, I digress..

This has been an extra long two weeks at work for me and a real hard time for San, who took the brunt of the kids boredom attacks, but we have "Prevailed"!

Now for the title of the post. When the MIL went to Seattle, not only did she take some lemons from here, which had to be moved around the bags, but she decided to take a "thenkuzhal maker" (refer this post.. the thing on the bottom right in the photo).

After opening her hand bag, the screening dudes were shocked. They had never seen an assorted item list like this. The MIL freaked out and she waved for me and the little one to stay a little longer outside the screening area. A team of people were now working on her with hand held gizmos that beeped all over the place. They checked her bangles, her thali, aranakayar, etc. etc. and finally after making sure that she is just another heavily jeweled middle aged desi woman, moved her aside.

We breathed a sigh of relief and started to wave goodbye, and she gave us the "Stop" sign with her palm, again! Now a lady started to wear gloves and walked towards the MIL. While we were worried that they were going to put her through hell, we saw a sigh of relief from the MIL. They were just wearing gloves to go through her baggage. That is when they pulled up the "thenkuzhal maker", for everyone to see!

To the untrained non-desi eye, it looks like some instrument that would be more at ease on a shelf in a physics lab, and the inspector (who looked like he was of Korean origin) was absolutely clueless. Somehow he let her go after a brief conversation.

Once in Seattle, we asked the MIL, "So what did you tell him?"

"I told him it is a mini pasta maker and he was convinced!" was the answer.

Mini pasta maker, indeed.

Note to self : Screen MIL's baggage at home when traveling with her the next time.

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An experiment in time

Thanks to Lak, found this site which analyses your personality type. Knew what a Jungian personality type was, 15 years ago when I was a graduate student and my type has not changed in the last 15 years. It keeps coming up with ENFJ. Extravert, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging. The type of person who is bound to be a "pedagogue" or teacher/leader.(Idealist portrait of a teacher, is the description by Keirsey.)

Took the test today after a few years and it is still ENFJ. That is good to know! It is always interesting to see how such sites and tests work.

So here is the experiment in time.

Take the archive pages from this blog for various months and see how the type changes !!!

June 2005 : ESFP ->The Performers -> Entertaining and friendly type
Sep 2005 : ISTP ->The Mechanics -> Independent and problem solving type
Dec 2005 : ISTP
Mar 2006 : ISTP
June 2006 : ISTP
Sep 2006 : ISTP
Dec 2006 : ISTP
Mar 2007 : ISTP
June 2007 : ISTP
Sep 2007 : ISTP
Nov 2007 : ESTP ->The Doeers -> Active and Playful type
Dec 2007 : ISTP ->The Mechanics -> Independent and problem solving type
Mar 2008 : ISTP
May 2008 : ESTP ->The Doeers -> Active and Playful type
Jun 2008 : ISTP ->The Mechanics -> Independent and problem solving type
Jul 2008 : ISTP
Sep 2008 : ESTP ->The Doeers -> Active and Playful type
Nov 2008 : ISTP ->The Mechanics -> Independent and problem solving type

Based on this few conclusions:

ISTP probably is closest to ENFJ on the Jungian test?

Before we had the little one, I was a Performer.
When we found out there was going to be a little one on the way, became independent!

After the little one was born the brain stayed ISTP for a long time and somehow over the last couple of years, it has a very seasonal oscillation between an active playful type to an independent problem solving type.

In ohter words, the activity and playfulness over the first few months, creates enough problems for me to solve over the next few months!

This also proves another important thing..

Giving a site like that to a guy like me is like giving a "korangu" a "poo maalai".

(translation, it is like giving a flower garland to a monkey. ie., the garland has no chance of survival at the hands of the monkey).

There, I am teaching everyone not to over analyze!

It has been a long week. Tomorrow promises to be slightly more exciting. Maybe the playful and active person will come out?

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